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Fathers

"Any man can be a father. It takes someone special to be a dad."  This page is dedicated to all the DADS.  It is not about the quantity of time but the quality of the time a child spends with Dad.  Good father know this and treasure those moments.  Memories which remain throughout ones life are made from both the good and the bad times.  Often it is not what is said but what is not said which impact children the most.

“The fundamental defect with fathers is that they want their children to be a credit to them.”- Bertrand Russell


“I watched a small man with thick calluses on both hands work fifteen and sixteen hours a day. I saw him once literally bleed from the bottoms of his feet, a man who came here uneducated, alone, unable to speak the language, who taught me all I needed to know about faith and hard work by the simple eloquence of his example.”- Mario Cuomo



“My father died many years ago, and yet when something special happens to me, I talk to him secretly not really knowing whether he hears, but it makes me feel better to half believe it.”- Josefowitz


By profession, I am a soldier and take pride in that fact. But I am prouder – infinitely prouder – to be a father. A soldier destroys in order to build; the father only builds, never destroys. The one has the potentiality of death; the other embodies creation and life. And while the hordes of death are mighty, the battalions of life are mightier still. It is my hope that my son, when I am gone, will remember me not from the battle field but in the home repeating with him our simple daily prayer, ‘Our Father who art in Heaven.’- Douglas Macarthur


“It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father.”- Pope John XXII



“I talk and talk and talk, and I haven’t taught people in 50 years what my father taught by example in one week.”- Mario Cuomo


“Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance.”- Ruth Renkel


“One night a father overheard his son pray: Dear God, Make me the kind of man my Daddy is. Later that night, the Father prayed, Dear God, Make me the kind of man my son wants me to be.”- Anonymous



“The worst misfortune that can happen to an ordinary man is to have an extraordinary father.”- Austin O’Malley


“To her the name of father was another name for love.”- Fanny Fern

My father, when he went, made my childhood a gift of a half a century.  ~Antonio Porchia, Voces, 1943, translated from Spanish by W.S. Merwin


It is much easier to become a father than to be one.  ~Kent Nerburn, Letters to My Son: Reflections on Becoming a Man, 1994


The words that a father speaks to his children in the privacy of home are not heard by the world, but, as in whispering-galleries, they are clearly heard at the end and by posterity.  ~Jean Paul Richter

"There are three stages of a man's life: He believes in Santa Claus, he doesn't believe in Santa Claus, he is Santa Claus." ~ Author Unknown

"Fatherhood is pretending the present you love most is soap-on-a-rope." ~ Bill Cosby

"When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years." ~ Mark Twain

"Sometimes the poorest man leaves his children the richest inheritance." ~ Ruth E. Renkel

"A father carries pictures where his money used to be." ~ Author Unknown

"That is the thankless position of the father in the family-the provider for all, and the enemy of all." ~ J. August Strindberg

"It is a wise father that knows his own child." ~ William Shakespeare

"It doesn't matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was." ~ Anne Sexton

"It is much easier to become a father than to be one." ~ Kent Nerburn

"It's only when you grow up, and step back from him, or leave him for your own career and your own home—it's only then that you can measure his greatness and fully appreciate it. Pride reinforces love." -Margaret Truman

"When a child, my dreams rode on your wishes,
I was your son, high on your horse,
My mind a top whipped by the lashes
Of your rhetoric, windy of course."
-Sir Stephen Spender

"I just owe almost everything to my father [and] it's passionately interesting for me that the things that I learned in a small town, in a very modest home, are just the things that I believe have won the election."-Margaret Thatcher

"People see Archie Bunker everywhere. Particularly girls; poor girls, rich girls, all kinds of girls are always coming up to me and telling me that Archie is just like their dad."-Carroll O'Connor

"A king, realizing his incompetence, can either delegate or abdicate his duties. A father can do neither. If only sons could see the paradox, they would understand the dilemma."-Marlene Dietrich

"My father died many years ago,
and yet when something special happens to me,
I talk to him secretly not really knowing whether he hears,
but it makes me feel better to half believe it."-
Natasha Josefowitz

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